Totally inappropriate and weird clothing choices
We live in a CCRC and have a communal dining room. My husband has started picking out really bizarre clothing ensembles to wear to dinner. For example, last night he wanted to wear jogging pants, an orange long sleeved biking shirt, and a white button down shirt with a white undershirt over it, a tie that was tied with the back half almost touching his waist and the front up by his pocket. He paired this with black dress shoes and white socks. He also put a belt around the waist of the joggers - which of course had no belt loops., and a suit jacket to top it all off. I just can't let him embarrass himself and me like that! I am still trying to get him into memory care, with some promises made that so far have not been kept, but in the meantime I would like for him to retain some dignity. It was WWIII. The only way he changed is that I refused to go to dinner with him looking like that, and he can't find the dining room by himself. He was moody and sullen all during dinner, so there was no real win there. Today he had his trainer and put on a suit jacket with his joggers, no shirt, the same tie, and the same black shoes with white socks. Again, I said I would not take him unless he changed. I am exhausted from the arguing, but I just don't want to be the butt of all the jokes in this community. Any suggestions? He also complains all of the time that his clothes are wet, and sometimes he wears four pairs of socks because he says his shoes are wet. Help! Thank you for any suggestions before I totally lose my sanity.