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ronda b
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A slight change in a routine about locking the doors while I was at work.He became confused to why we need to.i have grand son I cant quit trust. He knows when I'm gone I I would the doors unlock.dh very upset when just thinks about him. Not quit sure what to do to make him less agitated.

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  • Carl46
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    If the grandson agitates him, I wouldn't mention the grandson. I'd just say I was locking the doors to keep out things safe. After all, your grandson isn't the only person in the world you can't trust.

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 1,338
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    sorry I don’t understand your post. Could you clarify? Is your husband staying home alone and didn’t lock the door? You mentioned “he knows” who knows? Your husband or grandson? With this disease new things crop up when you least expect them and are like a gut punch.

  • ronda b
    ronda b Member Posts: 180
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    Yes my Dh stays by him self for 4 hours 2 days a week. My grandson knows when I'm not home now. It had not been a problem till a few days ago when the grandson showed up when I wasn't home. Now my Dh gets very upset just thinking about him

    Sorry for the confusing post. Was letting my mind go faster than my fingers.

  • Russinator
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    ((HUGS))

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
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