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Jazzma
Jazzma Member Posts: 190
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We are down to the last hours. I am lying in bed with DH, music in the background, window open to sun and breeze. I am so terribly sad while being so grateful that he will be free. my heart is breaking.

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  • midge333
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    I am so sorry. I hope he dies as painlessly as possible.

  • Russinator
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    ((HUGS))

  • ladyzetta
    ladyzetta Member Posts: 1,199
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    Jazzma, Big hugs to you both, soon your DH will be at peace. Hugs Zetta

  • psg712
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    You have done a beautiful job caring for him. Peace to both of you.

  • Scooterr
    Scooterr Member Posts: 182
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    It's so bitter sweet with dementia disease knowing the only relief is the passing of your LO. I pray you have peace and comfort knowing your job, a job you done with your heart is complete.

  • Gator1976
    Gator1976 Member Posts: 42
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    So sorry for the journey you have been on. prepare for a new path and a new beginning. Take time to grieve and time to heal, all the best to you.

  • Kat63
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    ((HUGS)) 🙏🏻

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 1,686
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    🙏💜

  • harshedbuzz
    harshedbuzz Member Posts: 5,254
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    Wishing you peace at this tender and sacred time

  • CindyBum
    CindyBum Member Posts: 439
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    Thinking of you both and sending peace

  • Vitruvius
    Vitruvius Member Posts: 372
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    May your DH’s passing be peaceful and painless. May your memories be of all the good times and the knowledge that he is finally free of his misery.

  • jehjeh
    jehjeh Member Posts: 125
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    Praying for a peaceful passing. 🙏

  • Goodlife2025
    Goodlife2025 Member Posts: 65
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    May you and yours know the Peace only He can provide during this difficult time.

  • Karen711
    Karen711 Member Posts: 144
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    Jazzma- hoping for a peaceful passing for your dear husband, and sending love and strength to you💜

  • André
    André Member Posts: 1
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    Peace to you and to your dear husband. Freedom will come to each of you. Be kind to yourself as you have been to him. 💜💜

  • Daughter of a Marine
    Daughter of a Marine Member Posts: 67
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    Jazzma, you have run the race with your DH and are now helping to usher him into his reward.. I know the heartache every step of this journey has brought. I pray you will now focus on your healing and recovery from the trauma you have experienced.. My prayers are with you both - you are his hero.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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