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Keeps wanting to go get hair cut

My husband had his hair cut two weeks ago and keeps saying he needs a haircut, should I just let him go again? I remind him that he just went but he doesn't believe me

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  • Metta
    Metta Member Posts: 19
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    Maybe the attention feels good. Maybe it brings him comfort. I would say yes.

  • charley0419
    charley0419 Member Posts: 492
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    Let him go will only keep asking

  • JDancer
    JDancer Member Posts: 517
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    I wouldn't argue about when he had his last haircut. Maybe brush his hair and tell him how good it looks.

  • JeriLynn66
    JeriLynn66 Member Posts: 1,210
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    Might you try a quick trim by you to appease him?

  • l7pla1w2
    l7pla1w2 Member Posts: 304
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    Possibly collude with the barber so the barber pretends to do something, although it would probably be appropriate to pay the barber for his time.

  • H1235
    H1235 Member Posts: 1,101
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    Could you try something like- they don’t have any appointments available til next week, or tell him you made an appointment and just keep pushing out, if his usual barber doesn’t usually do appointments could you tell him they now require appointments. Just some ideas. I hope you find a solution.

  • weareallunique
    weareallunique Member Posts: 105
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    I hope " just let him go" doesn't mean he'd drive there ….

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