DW’s anger

Yes, very seriously, until Dr prescribed Seroquel and the hostility eased up. Unexpected development is while the medication assuages the hostility and anger directed toward me, it also stifled her positive emotions somewhat. Definitely worth it though, for me.

Yes, I experienced the same thing with my DW. She saved all the hostility for me.

Dementia-related anger toward a caregiver stems from the disease itself, not personal intent, often caused by a frustration with communication limitations, loss of control, paranoia, or unmet physical needs. To cope, avoid taking the anger personally, identify and address potential triggers like hunger or pain, and remain calm by using simple language, giving space, and redirecting the person to a distraction. Seeking support from doctors, support groups, and incorporating self-care is crucial for caregivers to manage the emotional toll of this behavior.

my husband used to strike out at me and then I would get mad. The doctor increased his anti depressant and I learned to either redirect or apologize. It was a very tense period we went through.

When I'm able to think and not just react, I try to separate the words from the emotions underneath them, and watch for patterns. This morning she got up too early and had too much time before we had to leave for her day program, and the scripting began. Same old stuff, and I just kept on making our lunches and drinking my coffee, and tried to think of ways I can get up quietly so I don't wake her in the morning.