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Long Naps

Can I just say…I love it so dang much when my DW takes a long nap. She's at about 3-4 hours a nap every day now. I know that means she's moving along, but I do enjoy these moments of quiet. I'm happy she gets them too.

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  • Chris20cm
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    I am a bit envious! My DW won't go down for a nap unless I lay down too, and I am not a nap person. If I read or check my emails on my iPhone, very very quietly and with as little movement as possible, she immediately wakes up and won't go back to sleep. I hate to think what she will do when she goes into memory care. It's inevitable though.

  • CindyBum
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    Oof! My DW was like that and can be still, but more and more she's napping on her own.

  • Biggles
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    Goodness I am soooo envious a 2-3 hour sleep daily I’m exhausted with my DH being awake and shadowing me constantly. He’s awake most mornings from 4am onwards I lie in bed and listen, sometimes the blankets go over my head and I get up tired dreaming of sleep 💤 put on the music make a cuppa we sit together in the garden woops here we go again.

  • LJC43
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  • annie51
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    I am also envious! Enjoy your quiet time while you can.

  • CindyBum
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    edited September 16

    Talk about celebrating too soon. Napping during the day seems to have only been a little break preceding a DW wandering and collecting things all night long. Thanks dementia!

    Pour one out in honor of the much appreciated napping days.

  • Metta
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    I have a love-hate relationship with long naps. I love being able to work from home quietly next to DH while we have DogTV with calming music, and I hate knowing that the long, deep sleeps that are getting longer and deeper will one day leave me sitting here alone heartbroken.

  • tonyac2
    tonyac2 Member Posts: 86
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    I guess you answered my question. I was wondering how the long naps affected nights and sleeping.

  • hogladyrider
    hogladyrider Member Posts: 17
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    At first I was frustrated with his napping, but now I just enjoy it, some quiet time for me for sure. He still sleeps at night along with napping.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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