No clue where we are in AD



My DH was diagnosed this summer with AD. I knew the last couple of years things weren't right, but he thought it was his bipolar issues. The neuro we saw just explained to us what AD is and what it does physically to the brain and then said he had to start Donepezil and take IV treatments. (He has not started the IV infusions as there was already risk of brain bleeding and he is a cardiac patient on blood thinners already.) The Dr gave us no idea whatsoever of how far into the disease he is. He still cares for himself, constantly cleans the house and does laundry, very conversational but anything with math, even simple math is a huge struggle now. I used to call him "Mr. Math". He can't process multiple things in a row, neuro and neuropsych dr both said no more driving at all, he gets turned around/lost when we are out in familiar territory, etc. Is it important to know a stage and if so, how do I find out? Neither Dr wanted to answer my question and just glossed over it. Thank you all
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@Kellybelle
IME, physicians tend to look at dementia using a 3-stage model (mild/moderate/severe) that aligns with what treatments are appropriate. Caregivers tend to use a 7-stage model that is based on assistance needed with IADLs/ADLs.
Given that he qualified for infusion medication, his doctor would likely consider him in an early stage.
IMO, family caregivers tend to have the best idea about progression as their LO is unlikely to showtime around them. The rule of thumb is that a PWD is considered to be in the latest stage for which they have behaviors or symptoms.
I think stage is important when considering safety issues. The age equivalents in DBAT can be useful gut checks around things like staying home alone.4 -
I think it is important for us to know their stage. Why are we typically told a stage when our LO has cancer? That info is given, not so much for us/them to have a say in treatment, but for them to be able to "Set their house in order."
My mom's new pcp does not think further scans are needed, because the treatment will not change. However, she is going to stage my mom for me at her follow-up. She will be administering the S.L.U.M.S test.
Her previous pcp begrudgingly did an M.M.S.E and an MRI. MRI revealing she most likely has Vascar Dementia. I do not know for certain what stage she is in. I presume she is stage 5, heading into early stage 6. I look fwd to getting confirmation or correction.
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Here’s a chart of stages for you to look at and then estimate your PWAD where he is at. My DW was diagnosed with EOAD in 2023 and was told by Neurologist that it probably started several years before. At diagnoses she was probably stage three and stayed the until January 2025. Since then she progressed to today to late stage 5 early stage 6. We both decided at the beginning to not take any medications that might slow the progression. We also got all our medical DPOA and financial DPOA done while she could still somewhat understand and be part of the decisions. Today she has no idea who I am or what state she lives in or anything that involves numbers. I have to help her shower and dress each morning so far.
The 7 stages of Alzheimer’s disease come from the Global Deterioration Scale (GDS), which outlines the progression of symptoms from normal memory function to severe dementia. Here’s a clear breakdown:Stage 1: No Impairment
No memory problems.
- Normal behavior, independence, and function.
- Alzheimer’s not detectable.
Stage 2: Very Mild Decline
Occasional forgetfulness (like misplacing keys, forgetting names).- Still functions independently.
- Symptoms often dismissed as “normal aging.”
Stage 3: Mild Decline (Early-Stage Alzheimer’s)
Noticeable memory problems:
- Trouble remembering names of new people.
- Difficulty organizing tasks or planning.
- Trouble finding the right words.
- Family/friends may begin to notice changes.
- Person may cover up symptoms.
Stage 4: Moderate Decline (Mild Alzheimer’s)
Clear difficulty with:
- Managing finances and paying bills.
- Remembering recent events.
- Traveling alone to new places.
- Mood changes (withdrawal, denial).
- Still oriented to time and place, but memory lapses are obvious.
Stage 5: Moderately Severe Decline (Moderate Alzheimer’s)
Increasingly dependent on others.
- May forget personal details (phone number, address).
- Needs help choosing proper clothing.
- Can still eat, toilet, and bathe independently (mostly).
Stage 6: Severe Decline (Moderately Severe Alzheimer’s)
Requires help with daily living: dressing, bathing, toileting.
- Significant personality and behavior changes:
- Suspicion, delusions, or wandering.
- Anxiety, agitation, or aggression.
- Forgetting spouse/close family names.
- Incontinence may develop.
MStage 7: Very Severe Decline (Late-Stage Alzheimer’s)
Loss of ability to speak coherently.
- Needs assistance with all daily activities.
- Loses motor skills: difficulty walking, sitting, eventually swallowing.
- No recognition of family.
- Requires 24/7 care.
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Donepezil (brand name Aricept) is a prescription medication used to manage the symptoms of dementia associated with Alzheimer's disease. It is a centrally acting, reversible acetylcholinesterase inhibitor that works by increasing the levels of acetylcholine in the brain. This improved communication between nerve cells can help improve memory, awareness, and the ability to perform daily activities. it does not delay progression. You can search for old posts about it to see if any benefit. The search feature is at the top of the page. Infusions may slow progression a few months at most. Many choose not to do the infusions due to benefit vs side effects. Learn all you can about caregiving. The book “The 36 Hour Day” is a good place to start. Search online for Tam Cummings and Teepa Snow videos on dementia caregiving. Come here often for info and support. 💜
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Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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