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She thinks she's "done something bad"

My mother has later stage Alzheimers dementia. She sometimes recognizes her children but doesn't know our names and requires assistance with all of her ADLs. We care for her in the home she has lived in for over 60 years. She has recently been perseverating on "I've done something bad" We can't find any pattern or association with time, activity, location, etc. We try to distract her when this occurs but it is hard to break her out of this and she becomes tearful. Any suggestions for why this might be happening and how to better manage it would be appreciated.

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  • SusanB-dil
    SusanB-dil Member Posts: 1,492
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    Hi DeeDee - welcome to 'here', but sorry for the reason.

    MIL is on low-dose anti-depressant, which helps with a similar type of 'down'. You could tell her doc. Distractions not working, so it sounds like she is fixating on it.

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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