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Best thing I've done, thus far, is get some part time in home help. We (or at least me) can't do this alone! We are on our 2nd aide. First wasn't a good fit. My DH doesn't particularly care for the outside help, but I tell him that she is here to help me. It helps also to have someone to talk to, since conversations are now no longer with DH. It sometimes helps with the fiblet. There are professional in home agencies, but thus far we have used word of mouth referrals from people we know in town. I say it's better to start early, instead of for a burnout crisis. The other plus is the aid, we hired now, will sit at hospital if needed.

Welcome. A Elder Care Attorney might be able to assist with explaining Medicaid for your state. If you decide on memory care, some memory care facilities will take self pay and transition to Medicaid when she becomes eligible. You can also call the toll free Alzheimer’s Association phone number and they may have resources for caregivers in your area. 800-272-3900.