The losses just keeps coming

I couldn’t decide where to post this: here or on the front porch(where I’ve never posted).
I know not very many people visit here- but it’s a place to get my thoughts out.

As you know, my spouse and I lost our son( April 2023). Then I lost my step-dad Feb. 2024. He wasn’t a nice person, but I had known him for 59 years. I lost mom, the PWD, Nov 29, 2024. I was notified on Nov 18 2025 that my sister had passed away. She was 64 and lived several states away in Louisiana. We made an immediate trip there from Illinois to handle things. It falls to me to handle everything as our other sibling lives even further away than me in California. Neither of my sisters helped me with my parents the last five years of there lives. They called them once a year.

My sister hadn’t worked for several years, drawing disability, due to extreme back issues along with anxiety and depression. I’m obviously sad she’s gone, I’m angry that the authorities down there did no research to find us. They must never even have looked at her phone or Facebook page. Her apartment manager found us two weeks after her death. I’m resentful that I now have to handle my fourth estate in less than three years. No will either.