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agitation and aggressive behavior

My wife is 76 and in very late middle stage (6e) of Alzheimer's. She was diagnosed more than 10 years ago and has gradually progressed to this stage. until recently she was very cooperative, ate and hydrated well, and other than having almost no ability to care for herself was actually fairly easy to care for.

Recently she has been, at times, aggressively refusing to shower, to toilet, to change from pajamas to clothes and the reverse of that. I have given her an Olanzapine tablet on one occasion, it worked but all too well. she slept for approximately 24 hours. A nurse from hospice was here today and we talked of a different medication, ceraquill (sp).

My wife has always been the sweet, kind person that everyone loved. never raised a hand for any reason. I do know that this disease can change all that. occasionally I can talk her out of her refusal, but it is becoming more difficult as well as ess effective. I'm open to any suggestions

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  • Kat63
    Kat63 Member Posts: 189
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    My DH is in stage 7 and home under Hospice care. Beginning of stage 6 his sundowning (moving things around and constantly in motion) was so bad we started him on Seroquel after reading and suggestions from others on this site. Agitation did set in and we did increase the amount which has helped. It has helped take the edge off and allows me to redirect him more easily. My husband was always very calm and loving husband and father before AD took over. I still feel he is easier than some but do need the Seroquel for sure.



  • ​fesk
    ​fesk Member Posts: 507
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    If not already done, please rule out a medical issues for the behavioral changes. UTIs or another infection can cause this type of behavior and, once treated, the issues can improve.

  • steeleposte
    steeleposte Member Posts: 7
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    thanks, it’s been ruled out. Just progressing through the disease

  • midge333
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    Dosing is a trial & error process. It may make her sleepy at first but she will adjust to it. Good luck.

  • steeleposte
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  • persevere
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    We moved my DW from risperdone to serequol a couple of months ago. I found it to be helpful. But after observing my wife in one of her more agitated states and showing her some videos of nighttime behavior the Hospice nurse recommended adding lorazepam to the list. Low dose. It also has helped. Medications are totally unavoidable when they get to certain stages. Both for their safety and comfort and yours. Finding the right mix every day is virtually impossible but there are some rhythms that start to work.

  • steeleposte
    steeleposte Member Posts: 7
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    thanks, just went through an episode. Sitting here trying to regroup and give her a little time before I attempt to get her to take a serequel

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 2,596
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    ask the nurse if you can put it in her food.

  • steeleposte
    steeleposte Member Posts: 7
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    good idea

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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