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LAA60
LAA60 Member Posts: 1 New
I am brand new to this online discussion board. It’s been a hard longer years caring for my parents. My 92 yr old dad insists on keeping mom at home and we have paid caretakers for my mom who is 88 with late stage dementia. Just recently in the last two weeks she is no longer able to walk with her walker stand alone and many days will not put weight on her feet. This has created a problem with the caretaker ladies I have hired.
Two of them say they cannot lift her weight out of the recliner into the transport chair.
Has anyone had this problem or conversation. I am struggling with getting caretakers as we are in a very small little town. I’m worn out because I have to make a trip there every single night to help lift her t9 the chair then to the bed for the caregiver. And then I can go back home. Anyone have a Suggestions different options ? I’m exhausted

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  • MissingMom
    MissingMom Member Posts: 7
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    You may not be able to find an agency that will allow their CNA to lift her. Sounds like what you might need a patient lift or Hoyer lift.
    Patient lifts provide extra stability for mobility-impaired individuals during everyday transfers. They reduce caregiver strain and ensure loved ones can safety transition between environments without injuries. Whether you’re transferring from the bed to toilet, wheelchair to car, or any number or situations, we can help you find the perfect.

    Here is some information I found on medmartonline.com

    Selecting a Patient Lift: Basic Types

    Manual Lifts

    Manual lifts gently lift the patient through hydraulic levers. These are affordable lift options, and do require a limited degree of caregiver manpower to operate. 

    Electric Lifts

    If you’d like to decrease the degree of caregiver strain when transferring, consider an electric lift. Powered by a battery pack or plug-in cord, these lifts can raise a patient with a push of a button. 

    Portable Lifts 

    Portable lifts are designed to easily fold down when not in use or break apart for travel. Easily exit a car, or station this lift in various areas of your home to assist with daily transfers. 

    Sit-to-Stand Lifts

    For those with some degree of mobility who struggle only with rising from a seated position, a sit-to-stand lift is the solution. These lifts support a patient’s existing muscle control and strength, helping them safely rise to a standing position. 

    Additional Specialty Lifts

    There are a wide number of additional specialty lifts which are built to perfectly accommodate other transfer situations in everyday life. Consider installing a ceiling lift in your home to minimize caregiver strain and deliver an identical lift every time. Bath or pool lifts are excellent options for water transfers. In the case of bariatric patients, heavy-duty patient lifts are avaiable for any weight capacity. 

    What Should I Consider When Purchasing a Patient Lift? 

    Caregiver strength: To what extent can the caregiver manually adjust, push, or carry the lift? If not at all, an electric lift may be a great fit. 

    Weight: What patient weight requirement does your lift need to accommodate?

    Portability: Where will you be using your lift? Do you need to move it between rooms? Fold it down for storage? Travel with it?

    Size: Given the size of your living space, can your lift maneuver around tight corners or hallways? Will you be lifting from bulky furniture, requiring an adjustable base.

    GodBless

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 3,077
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    is your Mom under hospice care? They provide some equipment like hospital beds and incontinence supplies. Not sure if they provide lifts. Hospice provides so much help. I would call them.

  • harshedbuzz
    harshedbuzz Member Posts: 6,245
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    There's a concept I heard a lot in the MCFs— "Everybody is a 2-person life". Until now, your mom was able to participate in the lift as the second person; she no longer is. Any agency will insist on assigning 2 people to her care at this point at double your current rate. No one, including yourself, should risk back injury with a life of pain and disability by lifting someone solo.

    A Hoyer lift is an option if someone is trained, able to operate it safely and it doesn't upset your mom. Hospice could arrange this. You can see videos of how-tos on You Tube.

    HB

  • GardenGaze
    GardenGaze Member Posts: 3
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    At some point she may have to be in bed full time. Depends can be changed with rolling and no need to get out of bed. My dad isnt there yet, but sometimes the easiest way to clean him up is lying in bed.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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