Have any questions about how to use the community? Check out the Help Discussion.

TV show??

Is there a TV show a person with dementia can follow? Do you have any suggestions? We used to watch TV together a lot, but there doesn't seem to be a show DH can follow anymore.

«1

Comments

  • Call me Gram
    Call me Gram Member Posts: 107
    100 Care Reactions 100 Likes 25 Insightfuls Reactions 10 Comments
    Member

    Some favorites were High Potential, Will Trent, and NCIS. Unfortunately, DH can't follow any of those anymore. I've tried oldies but goodies… Star Trek, Magnum PI, etc. Sadly, DH doesn't enjoy them anymore. Any ideas?

  • Jeff H
    Jeff H Member Posts: 48
    100 Care Reactions 25 Likes 10 Comments 5 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    My DW was the same way. She doesn't watch TV anymore. She has been occupied with watching YouTube videos on her iPad. Specifically, Steve Harvey videos with kids and A.I. talking parrots. Such a strange and awful disease for everyone involved.

  • persevere
    persevere Member Posts: 161
    100 Likes 100 Comments 100 Care Reactions 25 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    I wish I could even get my wife to look at a tv. But the last thing I can recall her actually watching was the movie IF with Ryan Renolds. It had a little girl in it and big fluffy imaginary friends (IF). I think it was the colors and little girl that kept her interested.

  • Timmyd
    Timmyd Member Posts: 290
    250 Insightfuls Reactions 250 Care Reactions 250 Likes 100 Comments
    Member

    For DW, her taste in TV changed as the disease progressed. What works now is well written sitcoms. Things like Friends, Golden Girls, Reba. She enjoys anything with physical comedy. She does not like conflict or aggression. America's Funniest Home Videos (AFV) is very popular with DW.

    Fortunately for me, I am a big sports fan. I try to put something she will like on the big TV and I can follow a game on my laptop or tablet. They days of us sitting down together and enjoying the same thing on TV are over, but DW still gets a lot of enjoyment when the right programming comes along.

  • tonyac2
    tonyac2 Member Posts: 203
    250 Care Reactions 100 Insightfuls Reactions 100 Likes 100 Comments
    Member

    My DH enjoys watching old Game Shows - Match Game, Password, The Price is Right. He used to love Westerns but we don’t watch them anymore, too violent. He starts thinking people are outside shooting.

  • Call me Gram
    Call me Gram Member Posts: 107
    100 Care Reactions 100 Likes 25 Insightfuls Reactions 10 Comments
    Member

    This is so helpful you all… thank you!!

  • Jeff H
    Jeff H Member Posts: 48
    100 Care Reactions 25 Likes 10 Comments 5 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    It appears to be common that our loved ones like to watch funny stuff. Light-hearted comedy and such. Gone are the days of enjoying a movie together at home. Sad and mad at the disease.

  • lenbury
    lenbury Member Posts: 54
    Third Anniversary 25 Insightfuls Reactions 25 Care Reactions 25 Likes
    Member

    We enjoyed the British Baking show a lot. We would watch the seasons over and over again. Also Call the Midwife.

  • Biggles
    Biggles Member Posts: 693
    1,000 Care Reactions 500 Likes 500 Comments 100 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    My DH can no longer follow plots and involved shows either, so it's watch repeat watch again. He loves war movies or documentaries on youtube which I put on during the day and repeat shows at night, if there is nothing on free TV I pick a movie that we have watched before and enjoyed. Unfortunately there is not much scope for watching anything new but he doesn't seem to notice when I’m not watching and doing something on my phone as long as I am sitting with him.

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 2,987
    1,500 Likes 1,000 Insightfuls Reactions 2500 Comments 1,000 Care Reactions
    Member

    my brother in law streams music videos for my sister with dementia. There are some with animals in them.

  • Goodlife2025
    Goodlife2025 Member Posts: 229
    100 Care Reactions 100 Likes 100 Comments 25 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    So interesting how similar our experiences are. Nothing with violence or loud people. Old comedies, game shows and ridiculous animal videos. DW just doesn't understand the tiger is really not bringing cubs to a person in a car. But she seems to really enjoy these you tube shorts.

  • Mitsu2
    Mitsu2 Member Posts: 27
    25 Care Reactions 10 Comments 5 Insightfuls Reactions 5 Likes
    Member

    We watch YouTube and PBS almost all of the time now. He enjoys documentaries (nature, history and music), music/concert videos and old movies. He likes the old Sherlock Homes films, and any documentary about Winston Churchill, FDR, and the Civil Rights Movement. We watch Ken Burn's history of jazz series over and over. Last night, we watched several hours of classic blues artists on YouTube. He really loved a PBS Nature episode about animal rescue workers reuniting with wild animals they cared for as babies. So nothing loud, violent, or fast-paced.

  • Maru
    Maru Member Posts: 293
    250 Care Reactions 100 Likes 100 Comments 25 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    We are not quite where you are, but I think my starting place would be some the really old sitcoms. They not only had simple plots but they may feel familiar, esp. if he is regressing to an earlier age.

  • RetiredTeacher
    RetiredTeacher Member Posts: 320
    500 Care Reactions 250 Likes 100 Comments Third Anniversary
    Member

    My DH likes old Westerns: Wells Fargo, Gun Smoke etc. He doesn't really follow the plot but I think he still enjoys them. He enjoys football too but when I try to talk about a previous play or player I realize he is watching bit not always comprehending. I went to the bathroom and the score had changed. I said they scored@ He was surprised and responded who? He sits and watches but I realize he is looming but not understanding or retaining what he sees. Sadly

  • easy23
    easy23 Member Posts: 346
    Fifth Anniversary 100 Likes 100 Care Reactions 100 Comments
    Member

    My DH seems to like Friends. He watches it for hours. It's funny because he never used to watch it when it originally aired.

  • jfkoc
    jfkoc Member Posts: 4,876
    Legacy Membership 1,000 Likes 2500 Comments 250 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    travel/national Geographic/ nature…PBS

  • Chammer
    Chammer Member Posts: 238
    Ninth Anniversary 100 Likes 100 Comments 25 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    DH watches Daniel Boone on YouTube. Says he likes them because they arent violent and he's seen them all so many times he could recite them (truth).

  • Russinator
    Russinator Member Posts: 291
    100 Care Reactions 100 Likes 100 Comments Second Anniversary
    Member

    My DW loves to watch You Tube's funny cats and dogs videos. When I hear her laugh it makes my day.

  • JJ401
    JJ401 Member Posts: 398
    Seventh Anniversary 100 Likes 100 Comments 25 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    DH here likes with shows with segments (Penn and Teller, Shark Tank)

  • Sunfish47
    Sunfish47 Member Posts: 42
    25 Care Reactions 25 Likes 10 Comments 5 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    My DH likes the old cowboy shows from his childhood. Gunsmoke, Rawhide, Wanted Dead or Alive, Rifleman, etc. DH is late stage 5 and doesnt really follow the plot but remembers the characters. I also put on reruns of America’s Got Talent and Britain’s Got Talent cuz he likes hearing the singers. He can’t use his phone anymore for calling or texting but when I put TikTok on his phone, he is able to scroll from one to the next one.

  • Stan2
    Stan2 Member Posts: 147
    100 Likes 100 Comments 100 Care Reactions Second Anniversary
    Member

    DW is enjoying Olympic figure skating

  • ladyzetta
    ladyzetta Member Posts: 1,338
    Eighth Anniversary 1000 Comments 100 Likes 25 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    My DH loved all the westerns, Wagon Train, Gunsmoke, Rifleman and and the likes. He had watched them so many times he always knew what they were saying, they were like his old friends. So in his later years, that's all he wanted to watch. His hearing was so bad, but he always knew what they were saying.

  • Jeff H
    Jeff H Member Posts: 48
    100 Care Reactions 25 Likes 10 Comments 5 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    I was surprised. My DW liked looking at that too.

  • bwanasil
    bwanasil Member Posts: 45
    25 Care Reactions 10 Comments First Anniversary 5 Likes
    Member

    My dear wife loves the British Baking show and Lawerence Welk

  • M5M
    M5M Member Posts: 246
    100 Likes Third Anniversary 100 Comments 25 Care Reactions
    Member

    There is an app called Zinnia that is specifically for people with dementia, with a variety of subjects from animals to cooking to presidents to zinnias ……and all in between. The shows are at a slightly slower pace, but very interesting. It is a subscription, about $10 a month I think. Need to have a smart TV that is less than about 10 years old….I tried to play on ourTV but it was manufactured in 2016, I believe, so didnt work….but anything newer does fine. You get a 10 day or so free trial so can try without losing any money to see how it works on your TV. ……. go to ZinniaTV.com

  • tucson anne
    tucson anne Member Posts: 66
    Second Anniversary 25 Likes 25 Care Reactions 10 Comments
    Member

    My husband too is entranced with the Olympic figure skating; watching the replays on Peacock. And ditto on war videos on youtube, as well as music, symphonic and folk, on youtube. He never watched TV as a child so the old westerns don't interest him; I've tried Law and Order (because it is so linear) and old Sherlock Holmes and Maigret, which he will watch for a while but probably only to please me. He's not wild about cute puppies and kittens. And last, we are watchinng Ken Burns the American Revolution in small segments. I think he likes the combination of re-enactments and charts showing armies going hither and yon. When we finish, I'll try another Ken Burns. At least I can be happy to watch those (the poor caregivers now know more about WWII than they ever wanted to , 12 hours a week of it!!

  • nanasharon
    nanasharon Member Posts: 12
    10 Comments 5 Likes 5 Care Reactions 5 Insightfuls Reactions
    Member

    My DH likes to watch Cooking with Emirel. He likes it because Emeril talks to the audience and he likes to talk to him.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
Read more