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Spits his food out

tonyac2
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I don’t know if this is a phase or just a progression of the disease. My DH is losing roughly 4 lbs. per week, and I’m sure it’s due to spitting food out. He will take a few bites, swallow, then the rest of the bites he spits out. What can I do about this? Nothing? I’m curious if others are dealing with this same issue. I’m leaning towards in home hospice care for help in managing the decline. Thanks.

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  • BethL
    BethL Member Posts: 1,317
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    My mom lost about 70 lbs over the last few months of her life. It's part of the declining process.

  • White Crane
    White Crane Member Posts: 1,157
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    Have you talked to his doctor about this? Is he having trouble swallowing? Is his mouth sore or maybe a sore tooth? My DH is in MC and he wasn't eating much. It turned out his partial plate had a wire that was poking his gums. He was also having trouble swallowing. He is now on foods that are easier to eat and we are having his partial plate fixed.

  • jgreen
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    Hi, @tonyac2

    I believe ‘failure to thrive’ is a qualifying characteristic for in-home hospice. You can self refer. If DH approved, they should have a lot to offer you. And I’ve also learned that dementia is a disease that Hospice will take on as long as you and DH need them. He does not need a prognosis of dying in a short amount of time.

    Let us know how it goes. Hugs and prayers for you and DH. 💝

  • Dusty217
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    My grandmother lost weight toward the end. I could only get her to eat finger foods as she paced and would not sit to eat. Tiny bites as often as I could get her to take them.

  • tonyac2
    tonyac2 Member Posts: 231
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    That’s a good point, maybe something wrong inside his mouth, or a sore tooth.

  • SDianeL
    SDianeL Member Posts: 3,173
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    ask for a speech therapist to do a swallow test. Pocketing food in their cheek and spitting food out can be due to swallowing issues. It is caused by progression. I agree that a hospice evaluation would help in many ways.

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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