What kind of help would actually make caregiving easier?

Mlatogan · March 24

Hi everyone,

I wanted to ask something a bit specific to those currently caring for a loved one.

If you could get help right now, what would actually make the biggest difference for you?

Would it help with daily care, someone to provide companionship, or just having a few hours to rest and recharge?

A lot of caregivers say that even part-time support can take a huge weight off their shoulders, especially during the more difficult hours of the day.

I am curious what kind of support would feel most helpful for you at this stage.

If you are currently exploring options or just want to understand what kind of in-home help is available, feel free to share or reach out. I am happy to answer any questions.

Wishing everyone strength and support

kmore1530 · March 24

Nighttime

MissOldMom · March 24

Companionship. My mom relies on me and my husband to be her whole world and that’s is not what we set out to do. But she lives with us after having lived across the other side of our state for 40 years plus so she has no long term relationships for the last 2 years except with us. It has not been for lack of trying. Church and the ladies that came sometimes have all but stopped. She can’t remember most of the convo so I’m sure that’s hard on them.

So yeah, someone to offer her companionship and conversation. She is very lonely for a friend. But won’t go anywhere. Everyone has to come to her.

Mlatogan · March 25

https://alzconnected.org/discussion/comment/268712#Comment_268712

That sounds really hard, and it’s clear how much you and your husband are doing for her. 💜

What you’re describing is very common. When social circles get smaller and memory issues make conversations harder, many seniors end up feeling lonely even with family around.

A companion caregiver could really help in this situation. Having someone come in regularly just to talk, sit with her, and keep her engaged can make a big difference. It also gives you and your husband some time to rest.

If you’d like, I can share how companion care works and help you look into options in your area. Just let me know.