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Its bittersweet she is no longer locked in a shell of herself but my DW of 40 years passed away today. She died at home and I was holding her hand so I am thankful for that. Reading this forum helped me get through some tough times and I thank you all. for those of you still weathering this storm may god bless you and keep you strong.

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  • ladyzetta
    ladyzetta Member Posts: 1,028
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    (((((((lpodd))))))  Sorry but you know she is in a better place. You being with her was a blessing for you both. Hugs Zetta
  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,090
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    I'm sorry for your loss. I have a feeling she knew you were there holding her hand.
  • sandwichone123
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    Lpodd, I'm sorry about your loss. I hope you have good support as you start the next let of the journey--finding and reasserting your own identity apart from that of a caregiver while mourning your loss in this year of losses. Please accept support when it's offered.

    Diane

  • Joe C.
    Joe C. Member Posts: 978
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    I am sorry for your loss, may you find peace in the days ahead.
  • ChrisBme
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    My deepest condolences Ipodd!!
  • David J
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    Ipodd- So sorry. I’m glad this forum helped you on the journey and maybe it will help in this next chapter of your life. People here understand what you’re going through no matter what stage of the journey. 

    Now it’s time for you to take care of yourself. I hope you have support from friends and relatives as you mourn and build a new life. Good luck and we would love to hear how you’re doing in the coming months. 

  • Last Dance
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    So sorry for your loss, glad you could be with her at the end, and hold her hand as she passed from this world to a better place with no more suffering.  God's Blessings to you, as you start a new life alone. Richard
  • anneleigh
    anneleigh Member Posts: 65
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    So sorry for your loss.  May you be blessed with Love and support from friends~
  • Bholmes
    Bholmes Member Posts: 15
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    Ipodd,

    I am so truly sorry for your loss. The coming days will be difficult, but please try to stay strong. I am glad you were able to hold her hand.

    I am going through a recent loss also and am glad my DW no longer suffers, but I am very lost as to what I am to do with myself. She was everything to me for so long. This is a difficult journey for all that are here.

  • Bevy
    Bevy Member Posts: 11
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    Sorry for the loss of your wife.  May the Lord bless and comfort you and your family.
  • Marie58
    Marie58 Member Posts: 382
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    Ipodd, I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm happy for you both that you were with her and holding her hand. May God bless you and give you comfort during this time.
  • Mint
    Mint Member Posts: 2,808
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    (((Ipodd)))  So sorry for your loss, may you find peace in the storm
  • LadyTexan
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    Dear Ipodd.

    I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and comfort you.

    Please take care of yourself now.

    Take care - 

    LT

  • Jeff86
    Jeff86 Member Posts: 684
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    Deepest condolences on the loss of your DW.  Wishing you peace in the challenging weeks and months ahead.

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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