Mother in Law

Kevcoy

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Crushed

Doesn't help the poster but my mother had vascular dementia and my wife was an absolute saint.  My wife was diagnosed with MCI nine  days before my mother died.   Sucks

Nowhere

I think I’d want to change houses with MIL. Let her cook and take care of her son, and you be the one to visit them.

BethL

I feel sorry for you! If I was in your situation, I'd do something to get out of it. Not sure what it would be, maybe move? Maybe set boundaries and stick to them, and change the locks. I couldn't handle what you are going through. Your MIL's behavior is .....(fill in the blank).

piozam13

I've got no experience about MIL - but if she could stay and be with your son, let her.  In the meantime, take advantage of your free time, go out and do something for yourself.

On the other hand, considering her advanced age, could something be wrong with her.