Moved Mom from Memory Care to Assisted Living

Tmagnuson

Hello!  My mom has been diagnosed ALZ for 12 years and been in Memory Care for 5. She was just released from Hospice after 2 years. Her MC unit moved 3 residents that required a 2 person lift with Hoyer to Assisted Living.  It is a nightmare.  I found another MC unit and are hoping Hospice will reevaluate. We hope the move is soon.  I’m greatly affected by this and am having difficulty visiting her. I feel like I let her down by not fighting the move. Thank you for listening.

MN Chickadee

Wow, I don't understand that. What reason was given for moving her? I hope you are able to move her ASAP to a place with the proper level of care (and concern for her well being.)

harshedbuzz

That's odd.

Some thoughts-

1. AL costs considerably less than MC around these parts, were you offered a reduction in monthly fees?

2. Is you mom still able to take advantage of the activities in the MC side or has she progressed to a place where she's mostly in bed?

3. Would you be OK with mom sleeping and getting hygiene care on the AL side while spending time in MC for  the activities and dining? We did that with my aunt who needed more hands on skilled care but who still enjoyed days in MC and their weekly outings.

HB

M1

I think I would ask to speak with the director and inquire as to the reasons.  My suspicion would be staffing difficulties--a lot of places are facing this right now and may be reluctant to admit it.

JJAz

Have another Hospice company evaluate her.  They are not all created equal.  BTW, requiring a 2-person assist is a valid reason to have her moved, and if she's on Medicaid, you may not have a lot of say in where she goes.  Just continue to watch over her care and be a good advocate for her at the new facility.  That's what your job is now and it's the best way to be a great daughter!