Frozen Cake and Cole Slaw and Many Thanks!
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Hello again, Cindy. You are awesome and doing a really great job! We are so glad to have you with us. There is a learning ladder and it takes time, but you are really learning very quickly and I am sure will continue to do so.
There is a lot to share here, and just keeping contact is a very good thing. There is a completely different Thread written by Lorita, "Just Need To Talk To My Friends." On this, we call it getting togethere on Lorita's "Front Porch." Weather is always perfect on that porch and the rocking chairs fit all sizes of back sides. We talk about our lives, what is happening with ourselves, a lot of gardening news is shared and it is a peaceful place of respite. Lorita now has the 150th Thread just started; it is a continuation of number 149 and our day to day sharing. When you are up to it, do give it a look see; it is as said, a comfortable and peaceful place of respite. Lots of information and often recipes shared.
In any case, I so hope tonight will be a really good night at church; the dishes you will bring will be appreciated and no stress for you - perfect!
Times will be up and down and all around; rinse repeat - that is dementia, but we are always here for support of one another and we get to know one another quite well.
Warmest of thoughts are being sent your way,
J.
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Cinsababe, I like your attitude. Like you, I learned a lot from this forum. I was able to anticipate changes in behavior and problems. There's not much we can do about the disease. But we can learn and change how we respond to our LO.0
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I like your attitude too. You are learning to put your oxygen mask on. Hate that you need to be here but glad you are finding help here.0
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I like your attitude. The only person we can control is ourselves.0
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Great attitude Cinsababe. I'm glad you've found us and are sharing with us. That is what its about - helping each other along the journey. Purchasing food instead of making it is a good step - good for you.
As for napping I think its a great idea to rest when your LO is resting. Its called surviving. Again, good job.
eagle
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I have also been making things easier on myself. There's no shame in buying instead of making things to share - maybe the alternative is to not show up, and I know that's not an alternative you want to consider.
Your comment about his getting lost in the store almost mirrored one of my experiences. He clings to his "jobs" that he can still do. One is to return the grocery cart to the corral. I didn't know to watch for him, and when I realized he hadn't come back to the car in a timely manner, I went looking. He was two aisles away. When I got close to him, he was angry, and asked why I had moved the car! I calmly said, "We're over here," and led him to the car. A couple of times since then he has gone into a convenience store while I sat in the car, and he has sometimes tried to get into a different one. In one case, I was inside a small store that he didn't want to enter. He was outside of the car in the sunshine, but when I glanced out the front windows he was heading toward a different car to get in. Vigilance, just like having a toddler again.
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DH = Dear Husband
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ES = Early Stage
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FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
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