A poem about our mornings
In the wee hours of morning, without any warning,
The cat begins his loud meow, meaning he wants to eat now.
The cat wakens my man, who stumbles to the can,
In order to pee, without help from me.
I pop out of bed, sleep still in my head.
If I don’t act quickly, the floor will be sticky.
When it comes to his aim, DH isn't the same.
The cat continues to whine. I think, “get in line”.
I have to help Jesse, or all will be messy.
I get my man dressed. He’s far from impressed.
He misses his handsome clothes. Easy care shorts replaced those.
Dear Jesse asks for coffee and then the TV. The cat loudly meows “what about me?!”
I feed the loud cat and think “be happy with that”.
I love my dog Hap. He gets up in my lap.
Hap licks my face, then gives me space,
To catch my breath, before the next step,
To take care of my man, the best that I can.
Our days begin early. It’s not even four thirty.
Comments
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I like your creativity for bringing a little light to a bad situation.0
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I found your poem fine,
‘Til I read the last line.
Your care for DH is a gift,
But, LT, you’re working night shift!
YAWN!!!!
(Good on you for bringing levity to the Groundhog Day monotony of caring for DH)
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I can only guess that was written in the afternoon. Nice job!0
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You inspired me . Empty bed at Dawn
An empty bed
An empty room
An empty life
Nothing but gloom
Her body walks
But she is gone
There are no talks
To fill the dawn
They comb her hair
And paint her nails
Dress her in blue
And shirts with sails
My princess bride
She came to be
The golden life
She built with me
She stunned the world
With grit and brains
She’s in the books
They know her name
We walked with bears
And Rhinos too
Dove coral reefs
So deep and blue
We raised two girls
So bright and strong
I lean on them
To get along
Fifty years
It seems too few
Her clothes are blue
And I am too
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Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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