Feeling alone and missing people.



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Lisa, you don't have to wait for the docs to ask for a hospice evaluation. Sounds like you could really use the support--why don't you call yourself? You don't need an MD referral. I can't imagine a month is going to make much difference in your situation, and it sure sounds like you could use the support. In fact depending on your area, you may want an evaluation from more than one agency. All it takes is a phone call.0
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lisarae, I know exactly how you feel. Does your LO let you at least attend services? Sometimes that 2 hours, plus my 1 hour each work day commute, is the only time I'm not "on duty". One of my best friends (from the past) messaged and wanted to get together, but I never know what kind of reception I'll get to that request. My very BFF moved away, which is a blessing because she doesn't have to see all this, but I sure miss her. I'll pray that you can find some peace in your faith and strength for the journey.0
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Dear Lisa, I read your profile. I’m very sorry that he has such a serious and sad diagnosis. I am truly sorry for both of you and the people who love you both. You can learn a lot here just by reading the post by others here who are currently living this nightmare day to day. Then we have the others who have already fought the good fight and finished the course with their own loved one. They stick around and continue to bless us with their stories and their experiences and knowledge. We are a family and we support each other the best we can. We welcome you to this family that we have built together thru thick and thin.
In regards to the people who are concerned about what they will get, please make certain YOU are protected financially. Have you seen a CELA? At this point in my journey helping my dad care for himself and my momma (she has Alz) , if my brother and/or sister show up and ask about an inheritance, I might just lose it. This is a very lonely journey and no one understands it unless they have experienced it. I wish you well and I wish you peace.
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Commonly Used Abbreviations
DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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