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Things I am grateful for today.

#1 Mom used the toilet and was able to use the walker to get back to the bed.

#2 She seemed content and peaceful today.

#3 My sister and my dad were able to apologize to each other before the situation got out of control.

#4 I got to spend some quality time with mom today. I sat with her and made small talk that she was able to respond to.

I'm going back home Friday to access the damage to my house and yard. I am grateful the house is still standing. I miss my dogs and my friends and neighbors. I can help my neighbors by cooking for them and being a sounding board. Everyone is tired and incredibly stressed out. I hope all of you here, who may have been impacted by hurricane Ida, are safe. I wish you well and I'm praying for all of us. 

Crushed, if you happen to read this, I have to share this with you! The day after I read the poem you shared, I saw a pair of the most beautiful ravens I have ever seen. Their feathers were full and healthy, black as coal. They sparkled in the sunlight. They took my breath away and I thought of you. My heart was full. 

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  • Battlebuddy
    Battlebuddy Member Posts: 331
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      I am glad you had a good day yesterday. There are always different things that qualify as a good day right? 

      We are with you there on hospice with similar issues. Is he calm and peaceful? Has he eaten something? Can I even sit in the room with him without agitating him?  All that happened with us too yesterday. Good day and I’m grateful.

  • Pumpkin Pie 2020
    Pumpkin Pie 2020 Member Posts: 3
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    Thinking of you, abc123.  Glad you can find things to be grateful for. 

    I am grateful for the nighthawks that fly over the city of Duluth every August on their way to South America.  I heard a great story about it on Minnesota Public Radio.  Below is the link if you would like to take a listen. 

    Take care!

    https://www.mprnews.org/story/2021/09/01/for-2-weeks-every-august-duluth-is-the-nighthawk-capital-of-the-world

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