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Crushed
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For some reason DW put these earrings on the windowsill 4 years ago, just before she went into memory care. I've never moved them.  I see them every day.  

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  • Jo C.
    Jo C. Member Posts: 2,954
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    How loving, and how poignantly sweet.  They are butterflies and they are against a window to the outside - it feels as though there is something very symbolic in that . . . . thank you for sharing this, Crushed.

    J.

  • DrinaJGB
    DrinaJGB Member Posts: 425
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    How lovely.

    I left my DH's umbrella by the back door for a year. He had come home on Friday evening and left it there by the door.

    The next morning he was life-flighted to the Texas Medical center with a deadly virus that attacked his brain. And here we remain all these years later---prisoners to dementia.I finally removed the umbrella.

  • White Crane
    White Crane Member Posts: 917
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    Crushed, what a lovely and poignant memento.  I have the last bird list DH wrote.  These days he has trouble identifying a house sparrow. It's sad and yet I cherish having something that he wrote himself.  Thank you for sharing this.
  • Just Ro
    Just Ro Member Posts: 43
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    Love this!

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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