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Ed1937
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For those of you who are really having a very hard time, I wonder if a hypnotist might help? Would you try it?

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  • Sligo177
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    Hi Ed1937,

    I had not thought of that, but you know, in the depths of our difficulties, use whatever resource that might help.  I am assuming you are talking about yourself .  We have to care for ourselves so we can be there for our LO's.  I would say yes.  I hope it helps and I wish you and your LO peace.  I will put it in my tool box as well. 

  • M1
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    Ed, I have a hard time thinking that hypnotism would work on a demented brain.  I doubt that it's ever been looked at.  I'm not sure I believe that it works on a non-demented brain, but I'd have to look at the research.....
  • jfkoc
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    YES!
  • LadyTexan
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    I would consider hypnotism for me for sure. 

    My mind seems to be my biggest enemy and also a great strength. When I have an especially challenging day, its often because I have expectations that cannot be met. When I adjust my thinking, eliminate my expectations of DH and express gratitude, I am more centered although my situation has not changed. If a hypnotist could guide my thinking to be more centered more quickly, I am all in.

  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,084
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    Sligo177 wrote

    I am assuming you are talking about yourself .

    Nope.

    M1, I should have been more clear. I was not thinking about it working on a broken brain, but maybe for a caregiver. I highly doubt anything like that could have a benefit to a PWD.

  • SSHarkey
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    Not for me! I’m not one who wants to allow someone to “plant” something in my brain without my awareness. I’m very cognitive in my mental health approach.
  • M1
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    Ha!  Silly me, Ed.  I guess I can't imagine what they would hypnotize me for--not being angry or frustrated or sad?   Thinking this is normal?  I can't imagine.....
  • Stuck in the middle
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    I learned to do self hypnosis 50 years ago, from a clinical psychologist.  It was the best thing I ever did.  Similar to meditation, I learned to relax and self-implant ideas I wanted.  Works for weight control, smoking cessation, ignoring back pain, etc.  Learning to control my own mind has been a life saver for me.  I can do it in stressful situations and feel my heart rate slow and my mind clear.  I strongly recommend it.
  • Stella Luna
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    Stuck in the middle,

    Where can I learn about self hypnosis? I am really interested. I meditate in a regular basis and that has helped me to know my mind and how to quiet it down. But in this situation I need more control of my feelings, thoughts, expectations, etc, etc…..

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