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My dear husband has passed!

I have not been on much lately as I devoted more time in caring for my husband who was bedridden for over a month.  The 4 1/2 year journey is over as of last night.  Frank went to be with the Lord at 5;40 in the evening.  My four kids and close family members had said the rosary and 2 hours later, the kids and I gathered around him as he took his last breath.  I really thank Hospice and for my caregiver team that helped guide me along the way.  They knew when it was more important to be at his side.  I appreciate the prayers and support I know I will need in the upcoming days.

I will continue to pray for you all in your journey!

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  • Lorita
    Lorita Member Posts: 4,311
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    Anneleigh, please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your dear husband.  So many of us know the heartache you and your family are feeling. Your husband is well again and .free of this terrible disease.  Now is the time  for you to rest.
  • LadyTexan
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    Dear anneleigh,

    I am truly sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your loved ones. May He comfort you and bring you peace. You know you are not alone. He is always with you. He will give you strength.

    God bless you and your family.

    -LT

  • Doityourselfer
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    I'm sorry for your loss.  Take good care of yourself.
  • June45
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    ((anneleigh))  In all the sadness of your loss, how wonderful that your family could surround you and your husband with love and support when you needed it the most.
  • Ed1937
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    Anne, I'm so sorry. Prayers coming your way for a short grieving time.
  • Jo C.
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    Dear Anne; I am sending heartfelt warm thoughts your way; it was beautiful that the family was together and stood by Frank and yourself in their loving care in his last moments.

    May you find peace in knowing  that you went the distance doing your very best.  You have been such a blessing to your beloved husband.

    When you have time and are up to it, let us know how you are; we will be thinking of you.

    J.

  • Marie58
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort in the days to come. I'm happy that you and your kids were with him. Blessings to you.
  • Beachfan
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    Anneleigh,

    I am so sorry for your loss.  It sounds as though your family and DH experienced a peaceful passing; I hope that gives you some comfort.  I will be thinking of you and praying for you and all your family.  Stay strong.  

  • Keep It 100
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    Prayers for you and your family.
  • 60 falcon
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    Anneleigh, so sorry for your loss.
  • Buggsroo
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    Anneleigh, 

    I am so sorry for your loss. 

  • Jeff86
    Jeff86 Member Posts: 684
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    Anneleigh — sending you deepest condolences on your DH’s passing.
  • Mint
    Mint Member Posts: 2,674
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    Anneleigh I am so sorry for your loss.
  • Davegrant
    Davegrant Member Posts: 203
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    Sorry for your loss.
  • White Crane
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    Dear Anneleigh, sending hugs and prayers at the passing of your dear husband.  May God comfort you and hold you close.
  • caberr
    caberr Member Posts: 211
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    So sorry for your loss
  • Sarai
    Sarai Member Posts: 16
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    Anneleigh I  am so very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.  Prayers for you.
  • Last Dance
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    I am so sorry for your loss. Take comfort in the fact that you were able to take care of him, and were a blessing to him. I am happy that you had family with you and, that you could be with him as he went to be with the Lord. God's Blessings to you Richard
  • ButterflyWings
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    Sending you heartfelt condolences on the loss of your loved one. 
    May he rear in peace, and may you find healing, peace and comfort as you move forward.
  • Joe C.
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    My condolences on the loss of your husband. May you find some peace in the days ahead.
  • David J
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    Anneleigh, I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences are never enough, but they are sincere. Please take care of yourself now.
  • amicrazytoo
    amicrazytoo Member Posts: 169
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    Sorry for your loss.
  • abc123
    abc123 Member Posts: 1,171
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    Anneleigh, I'm sorry for the loss of your husband. You are in my prayers and in my heart.
  • Sligo177
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    anneleigh,

    I am so sorry for your loss, and I wish for rest and healing to you and your family.  I know it's a very hard time for you.  Prayers for you.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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