Year 2021. You tell me where I messed up.

lizziepooh

That is the point.

lizziepooh

I may argue I was right, but not really.

Stuck in the middle

Forget about it.  We have a whole new year to mess up.

SusanB-dil

~sigh~

lizziepooh

I would love to to hear what you would say. Be brutally honest. I want to hear it.

I really do.

lizziepooh

SusanB-dil wrote:

~sigh~

You too. I would like to hear from you. It sounds like I annoy you. Why? Feel free to speak your mind even if it is negative of me. I want to know what you really think of me.

lizziepooh

And anyone else. If you have had a negative impression of me I would like to know it and why you think it was negative. 

I am being sincere in wanting to hear this. 

And I won't hold it against you. If someone is being honest, how do we ever hold that against them?

SusanB-dil

hi lizzieP - not annoyance - i am agreeing with you (and StuckInMiddle as well)... i am sorry and apologize if it did not come across as intended

'this' whole thing just gets so dang frustrating. so whaddya do?!  another year of the same... ~sigh~

Did we mess up?  probably... we are learning as we go, as each of our LO's are so different.   Were we wrong?  maybe, maybe not... but cannot argue the point because it would do no good, just be too frustrating for everyone and would go nowhere...  ~sigh~

so - we have the forum and each other.  and that is a good thing.

What i really think of you? - that you and we are in this mess together and we are doing best we can with what we've got.  {{hugs}}

Stuck in the middle

I guess I missed the point.  I thought you meant messed up in life generally, not on the board.

I don't have a negative view of you, Liz.  You and your sister are caring for your mother; I wish I had a sibling who would help me.  You are a hero and a Knight of the order of the blue glove as far as I am concerned.

If you did anything wrong on the board in 2021, I have literally forgotten about it.  Please feel free to do the same.

"Now we greet the new year, full of things that have never been."  Ranier Maria Rilke