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A total win

Our front door was hanging off its hinges, I took one look at why, got a selection of my husband’s screwdrivers, some really long screws and proceeded to unscrew the top latch. My hubby was holding the door, while I sunk a huge screw into the frame, then I sunk the other screw into the bottom of the latch.
The door now shuts beautifully and my husband is totally gobsmacked at my ability. I am woman, hear me roar.
I took my newfound resolve to the grocery store and got the really rude checkout clerk. I told her she was rude and went to another cashier. I know the cashiers are fed up with Covid, aren’t we all? However, I have always been very polite, so not going to take anymore guff.

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  • Mint
    Mint Member Posts: 2,826
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    Isn’t it a great feeling to get something done like that.
  • Fairyland
    Fairyland Member Posts: 178
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    Awesome, I hear!
  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,091
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    Good for you! It really feels good when something you're not used to doing comes out good. My problem has always been in the kitchen. But I'm learning.
  • abc123
    abc123 Member Posts: 1,171
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    You go girl!!!! Good for you!
  • Joydean
    Joydean Member Posts: 1,500
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    Fantastic! Who ever said women can’t do certain things has never meet a tired caregiver! And yes men doing things they have never done before too!
  • JoseyWales
    JoseyWales Member Posts: 624
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    Yay for you! 

    I'm so much handier around the house than I was before. My list of home repairs has grown by leaps and bounds in the last few years. For me, after I got over my initial frustrations, it's been really positive growth. 

  • ButterflyWings
    ButterflyWings Member Posts: 1,756
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    Win-win!  Congrats to you

  • Lynne D
    Lynne D Member Posts: 276
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    Yay you! 

    If nothing else, dementia has caused me to learn a number of new skills too.

  • LadyTexan
    LadyTexan Member Posts: 810
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    I love the wins! Thank you for sharing.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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