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Happy National Caregivers Day

It is National Caregivers Day. How are YOU celebrating? Or rather, how are others celebrating you?

I thought so.

I fantasize that when I have my life back I will somehow bring attention to this gaping wound in our healthcare system and society. But for today, alas, I am cleaning the toilet for the 11th time, listening to the same gibberish, taking the usual verbal abuse, and drinking myself as close to oblivion as can without being totally irresponsible of my duties.

Cheers!

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  • Rescue mom
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    I just saw this, and trying to smile instead of the alternative. No, of course I did not know this was even a day!

    My therapist is always saying “I don’t know how you all do all this”  (about what caregivers deal with). 

    Then she talks about how she can’t believe this terrible, tremendous need for help gets so little attention. I’ve tried telling her that everybody who’s affected by it is too tired to advocate, and it’s not like taking cute kids to Congress to promote schools, for example. 

    You know what we say: you gotta be there. Hope your wine was good!

  • toolbeltexpert
    toolbeltexpert Member Posts: 1,583
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    Lynne D wrote:

    It is National Caregivers Day. How are YOU celebrating? Or rather, how are others celebrating you?

    Lynne D wishing you a better day.   Nope not any calls here either. And nope I didn't know there was such a day either. Nothing on Facebook. 


  • toolbeltexpert
    toolbeltexpert Member Posts: 1,583
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    Just noticed the 18th is also national wine day as well.
  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,084
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    I didn't know there was such a day. Not that it matters.
  • JoseyWales
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    Hummmm. It seems that the people I love seem to have missed celebrating me on this day.

  • Stuck in the middle
    Stuck in the middle Member Posts: 1,167
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    Lynne, I worry about you sometimes.  You are so kind and so close to going off the rails.

    Happy Caregivers Day to you too.

  • Joydean
    Joydean Member Posts: 1,497
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    Happy caregivers day to all and especially Lynne for letting us all know! Enjoy your wine and don’t let the smell from the toilet ruin it for you!
  • Buggsroo
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    Oh good, there is a special day for us caregivers, dying to see what Hallmark comes up with, where are the flowers, the whisky, the chocolates. Oh yes I forgot, not happening. Sarcasm, keeps me going and yes it is anger turned inward.
  • JudyMorrowMaloney
    JudyMorrowMaloney Member Posts: 74
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    I Hate to be cynical but there is nothing happy about caregiving. It simply sucks!
  • Jeff86
    Jeff86 Member Posts: 684
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    Honestly, I thought this must be a (bad) joke.  So I looked it up, and it’s the Providers’ Association of Home Health and Hospice Agencies (PAHHHA) that declared this holiday.  Bizarre.   No wonder no one knows about it.
  • DrinaJGB
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    How utterly preposterous.

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