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How do I behave with DH in denial

DH in early stage Dementia getting angry with me. Hdd we heard me talk to a friend and said he doesn’t have dementia, who said so? U r spreading rumors etc.

I tried explaining to him that his neurologist and scans showed but he denied 

I am not sure how I should behave 

He may get more agitated 

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  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,084
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    You need to know what anosognosia is. Here is a good link to understand it. Why your loved one doesn't believe they have dementia- It's NOT denial. 
  • sunshine5
    sunshine5 Member Posts: 148
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    Thanks Ed 

    I had heard about Anosognosia but never understood it. Video explains it well.

    It must be very hard for the caregiver to help someone when the loved one doesn’t know or u

    Think that there is a problem! How frustrating!

    It’s like adding fuel to the fire for the caregiver!

  • Paris20
    Paris20 Member Posts: 502
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    My husband also has anasognosia. I’ve learned how to step into his world in order to communicate, get along, keep the peace, and keep him safe. Sometimes I feel like I’m in a loony bin but my goals have changed. If DH stays calm and happy, I don’t care about telling fiblets or buying into harmless delusions.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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