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Nightbird

I saw on the news that Nightbirde, a young woman with metastatic breast cancer, has died.  She sang an original song on America's Got Talent that brought the judges to tears.  Her message:

You can't wait until life isn't hard to be happy.

Words to live by

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  • Rick4407
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    Good post.  Rick
  • Joydean
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    Thank you for sharing! It is beautifully said and so very true. If we wait for someone else to make us happy, we will never be happy! 

  • Phoenix1966
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    Nightbirde’s performance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZJvBfoHDk0
  • Jeff86
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    I heard the line as, You CAN’T wait until life isn’t hard to be happy.

    Even more compelling that way, I think.  But yes, words to live by.
  • White Crane
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    Thank you for sharing this.  I remember listening to her.  Good words.
  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,084
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    Stuck, thanks for the thread, and Phoenix, thanks for the link. If you didn't get chocked up watching that, you don't have a soul.
  • M1
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    Beautiful young woman in every sense of the word.  

    I used to have a poster (remember those?) called "How to Be Happy In Spite of Yourself."  Wish I still had it.  It got me through many dark times.

  • Stuck in the middle
    Stuck in the middle Member Posts: 1,167
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    I watched the clip and yes, she said "You can't wait until life isn't hard to be happy."  Either the news show misquoted her or, more probably, I misquoted the news show.  I didn't see the original show because my wife doesn't like music on TV.

    I edited my original post.

    It's Okay

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