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A lot going on

 My dad’s shingles are cleared up. He has bells palsy, which numbs the pain in his jaw. So he doesn't think that he needs surgery to remove his 8 pieces of teeth. But Bob is still taking him to get that done tomorrow morning. And in a couple of months, after everything else is healed, he's having surgery to remove the large polyp in his colon. 

It's a daily task to put in his hearing aids in the morning and take them out at night. This week I've been putting ineye drops and putting on an eye patch to protect his left eye, that he can't close because of the bells palsy. We just keep telling him each day that he needs to wear his hearing aids in order to hear us better. 

I just want this all to be over with and for my dad to fell better. I know that it’s my job to take care of him and everything daily as it comes up. I just get overwhelmed by multiple things happening all at once or in a row. 

It’s just a lot to take in and to do and it’s just overwhelming. 

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  • toolbeltexpert
    toolbeltexpert Member Posts: 1,583
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    Merrimom it sure sound like you got your hands full and doing a great job. I am just dreading getting my dw eyes evaluated for cat surgery. that is just one thing. Your dad has sure endured a lot and hope for the healing he needs. praying for a great outcome.
  • MerriMom
    MerriMom Member Posts: 38
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    toolbeltexpert:
    He has cataracts and needs reading glasses. He gea back to the eye doctor in September. Idk of we will go through that surgery with everything else he hasd going on  

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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