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A brief glimpse of the man who could always make me laugh...

jmlarue
jmlarue Member Posts: 511
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DH has declined to pretty much word salad for the past month. I almost missed this.
As I was prompting him to get ready for bed, he turned to me and said (with absolute clarity), "First, I'm going to take a pee," then turns his back on me and says, "You can have all the other letters."
How about that?!

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  • ButterflyWings
    ButterflyWings Member Posts: 1,752
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    jmlarue- laughing out loud! I’m sorry for the progression. But he just let you know he’s still in there!
  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,084
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    WOW! That's a win!! I know that word salad is really hard to hear, and likely just as hard for him.
  • White Crane
    White Crane Member Posts: 851
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    Wonderful!  I'm still laughing!  And almost crying.  He is still there.
  • Lynne D
    Lynne D Member Posts: 276
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    Stupendous! Thanks for sharing and I am glad you had this high point in your day.
  • Beachfan
    Beachfan Member Posts: 790
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    That’s a great response.  Made me smile.  Several years ago, on our 50th wedding anniversary, I asked DH if he recalled what he was doing 50 years ago on that day at noon.  At the time I asked, he was mired in gibberish and word salad and I didn’t expect a sensible answer, if any.  He gave me a puzzled look so I said , “You were waiting for me to walk down the aisle to marry you.”  He never skipped a beat and replied, “Lucky you!”
  • toolbeltexpert
    toolbeltexpert Member Posts: 1,583
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    Thanks for sharing that. Made me laugh, he's still there.
  • abc123
    abc123 Member Posts: 1,171
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    That is wonderful! I'm happy that you had that moment!
  • Joydean
    Joydean Member Posts: 1,497
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    So very happy for you! Moments like that sure makes the day better! Only another caregiver’s can understand how big that is! 

  • jmlarue
    jmlarue Member Posts: 511
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    Thanks to all of you for celebrating with me. It was an unexpected gift when I was feeling low. Laughter is such good medicine.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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