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Don't-Care-Caregivers

Phew, documentary filmmaking is running me ragged, but I gotta some time to write a couple of caregiver tales!

Don't-Care-Caregivers: What are the options when you feel like you're out of options?

https://www.stumpedtowndementia.com/post/don-t-care-caregiver

 What's the scoop, poop? I spill the dementia family caregiver beans on the RodgerThat podcast.

 https://www.stumpedtowndementia.com/post/what-s-the-scoop-poop

p.s. Uh, the film is looking pretty amazing! I'm hoping to have a trailer or first look vid done in the next couple of weeks to share online.


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  • wyoming daughter
    wyoming daughter Member Posts: 57
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    can't wait!
  • mommyandme (m&m)
    mommyandme (m&m) Member Posts: 1,468
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    Lickety,

    Thank you again… and again!!!

  • LicketyGlitz
    LicketyGlitz Member Posts: 308
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    Thanks to you guys for always being a lifeline for me and our dementia household!
  • MattyBoy
    MattyBoy Member Posts: 17
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    LICKETY !!!

    i am in the "THICK" of CAREGIVING right now (the "THICKETY?!!!)...

    anyway, a lot of your MOM STORIES are VERY MUCH like MY MOM's STUFF.. the BLANKET DELIVERIES, THE MIRROR LADY, etc...

    anyway, i am not a PARTICULARLY EMOTIONAL PERSON... but i read one of your POSTS yesterday... something about "ERASING"... and it unleashed a TIDAL WAVE of TEARS and EMOTION (darn* you!)... as a NON-CRYER... i was CONFUSED and DISTRAUGHT... then i read another one of your POSTS... the one about your being confused by people who say "I AM GRIEVING THEM NOW"... and it TOTALLY RECALIBRATED ME !!! ha !!!!

    what i am trying to say is THANK YOU...

    i NEEDED both...

    i APPRECIATE and RESPECT your TRANSPARENCY and ARTISTRY !!!

    GOOD LUCK ON YOUR DOC !!! 

    #LICKETYfanFORlife

  • LicketyGlitz
    LicketyGlitz Member Posts: 308
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    Hey MattyBoy! I've been in a bit of Downer Town myself today and your message recalibrated me! So thank you very much.

    I've come to the conclusion that while all dementia folks are going to have their variations in the disease, a lot of us caregivers are going to have the same ups and downs as we try to help our people navigate this journey. And for me, hearing others talk about the same thoughts and feelings that I have has been one of the few lifesavers on the trying trek! It sounds like our stories are giving you a bit of a lifeline, and that makes me happy... and got me off the couch to actually accomplish something today!

    Keep sloggin' through the "thickety" - at Stumped Town Dementia headquarters we're rooting  for 'ya!

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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