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Sharing a poem I wrote - for encouragement

Please feel free to share my poem being sure to show me as the poet, thanks.

          

A Dementia Perspective 

I struggle with my words coming out just right

Have difficulty staying asleep at night

Maybe I walk more slowly than you think I should

Or just can’t keep up like I thought I could

My words often get jumbled in my head

Don’t roll off my lips like in my mind I just said

Sometimes I have clarity and know who you are

Sometimes my memory escapes me and I just can’t recall

  

If you will be patient and loving then you will see

My love shine through in our past hopes and dreams

I don’t recall anyone’s birthday but, I still like cake

Just remind me of the occasion and see a smile on my face

  

I know how to walk & talk, but my brain gets jumbled

And yes, sometimes in my speaking I might mumble

I forget that I can ask for help, remember I do need you

I’m always grateful you’re here and for everything you do

  

You might not understand how it feels to slowly lose control 

Trying to adjust my life while staying loving and bold

If you see me crying, just show me that you care

Simply tell me a story or say a short prayer

When I laugh, just laugh with me about whatever was funny

And let’s enjoy our days, rainy, glooming and sunny

I love you even though I might not remember to say

But I hope you know my heart, as you carry on each day

  

Above all please know that I am doing the best that I can

There comes a time when we might all need a hand

I’m not purposely being difficult or contrary

I thank you for going above and being extraordinary!

Written on behalf of Mom

Written by H. Marie Lee

Richmond, CA

4/21/2022

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  • May flowers
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    Beautiful poem - thank you for sharing it
  • toolbeltexpert
    toolbeltexpert Member Posts: 1,583
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    Beautiful You shared your heart with  us.
  • Scooterr
    Scooterr Member Posts: 168
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    So profound and absolutely beautiful. Thank You
  • Wilted Daughter
    Wilted Daughter Member Posts: 194
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    Deeply touching and what I needed

  • Hoot619
    Hoot619 Member Posts: 342
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    I'm glad I read it and tears are still falling, thank you very much.
  • Babilv
    Babilv Member Posts: 19
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    I am so happy you have been touched by the poem! Stay encouraged and be blessed your/our LO need you/us!
  • Fairyland
    Fairyland Member Posts: 178
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    Wow this is fab. Hits the nail right on the head.
  • Laurie67
    Laurie67 Member Posts: 12
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    That's so beautiful and kind.
  • Jo C.
    Jo C. Member Posts: 2,940
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    Really, really lovely and based in the reality of it all.  Thank you for sharing with us,

    J.

  • BethMimi
    BethMimi Member Posts: 36
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    Thank you for sharing.  My soul is tired today and this has helped.  Hugs.
  • SusanB-dil
    SusanB-dil Member Posts: 1,149
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    Hi Babilv - Beautiful.  Thank you   ((hugs))
  • AfricanW1962
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    I needed this today. Thank you for sharing.
  • Ed1937
    Ed1937 Member Posts: 5,090
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    I'm getting ready to place my wife, and your poem really hit home. Thanks for sharing.
  • Babilv
    Babilv Member Posts: 19
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    Thanks everyone for the positive feedback!
  • Nikster13
    Nikster13 Member Posts: 6
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    Thank you

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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