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ButterflyWings

Just checking in to see how you are doing. I know you had some challenging past few weeks. Hope everything is ok with you all.

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  • M1
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    Adding my thoughts too.  Thanks MF.
  • ​fesk
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    Also hoping all is well, BW.
  • abc123
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    Has anyone heard from her recently? 

    ButterflyWings you are loved! I hope you are safe and well.

  • oehlsena
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    I am praying for you ButterflyWings.
  • abc123
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    TTT
  • M1
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    Getting more concerned as time goes on.  Does one of the moderators have any way of reaching out?
  • abc123
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    M1, I feel the same.
  • Quilting brings calm
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    Since the search function here is difficult to manage… does anyone remember Butterfly Wings situation when we last heard from her? was there  a safety issue?

    I remember that her spouse used a nebulizer and that he had been recertified for hospice,  maybe that he was an elopement concern? 

  • abc123
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    TTT
  • Ed1937
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    M1 wrote:
    Getting more concerned as time goes on.  Does one of the moderators have any way of reaching out?

    They should have her email address. I hope she shows up soon. It's been quite a while since I remember her posting.

  • towhee
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    ButterflyWings last two posts were on July 14, if anyone wants to reread. Over the last three months a post was started on average once a week, but before that it was around twice a month.
  • mommyandme (m&m)
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    Won’t she get an email if someone invites her to a “connection”? Maybe that would send an alert?
  • Ed1937
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    mommyandme (m&m) wrote:
    Won’t she get an email if someone invites her to a “connection”? Maybe that would send an alert?

    Great idea! I'll send her one.

  • Joydean
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    M&M, that is a fantastic idea!! Hoping and praying Butterfly wings is well!
  • Rescue mom
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    I’m among those worried. And it may just be my inability, but I never got any email or any kind of alert resulting from a connection request. Hopefully there’s some other way?
  • Ed1937
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    It's been about 31 hours since I sent an invite. Haven't heard anything yet.
  • mommyandme (m&m)
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    Rescue mom,
    Not sure if maybe your email went to “junk mail” but I’ve always gotten one.  

    Thanks Ed1937 & Joydean.  Now we keep waiting. 

  • Olly_Bake
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    The last post I recall that ButterflyWings made on someone else post was her post to abc123 about the passing of her mom (abc123 mom) on July 26, 2022. A post about her and her spouse, the last one I recall was the one below. 

    https://www.alzconnected.org/discussion.aspx?g=posts&t=2147561594

    Hope all is well ButterflyWings with you and your spouse.

  • Ed1937
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    I tried to send another invite to her. But it wouldn't let me. It only tells me that the invite has been sent. Maybe someone else should try. I hope nothing is wrong with her.
  • Ed1937
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    ttt

  • CatsWithHandsAreTrouble
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    Thinking of you Butterfly Wings. Hope you're okay...
  • May flowers
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    bumping again…Hope all is well, ButterflyWings
  • Babilv
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    I sure hope someone has heard from ButterflyWings, my prayers go out.

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