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I got Covid

DH has been in Memory care for 5 weeks. I had been over there everyday to eat lunch with him and also to check that they are giving him the correct medications etc. He has fallen 2 x since he was there and had to go one time to the ER to get stitches over his eye.

I have been under such stress and felt very tired and Monday I took a Covid test and tested positive. I am on Paxlovid. Very weak with sore throat,congestion, headache, muscle pain etc. Of course I can't visit DH. This just seems like the final blow to me and I am praying he doesn't pass away soon because at this point I am too exhausted to even plan his funeral. He is 92 and I am 82.

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  • ​fesk
    ​fesk Member Posts: 479
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    Elshack, I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this. I hope you are feeling better soon.
  • SusanB-dil
    SusanB-dil Member Posts: 1,149
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    Hi Elshack - I second fesk sentiments - feel better soon!

    ((hugs))

  • May flowers
    May flowers Member Posts: 758
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    I hope you feel better soon, Elshack. Covid just went through our house too.
  • Iris L.
    Iris L. Member Posts: 4,418
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    I had Covid last month, it was like a bad cold, I couldn't do anything for about 10 days.  I'm okay now, but still with a slight cough.  Be sure you get enough rest and fluids, Elshack!

    Iris

  • abc123
    abc123 Member Posts: 1,171
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    Dear Elshack, I’m sorry to hear this news. I certainly understand that you are exhausted! A person can only do so much and then it seems that everything catches up with you. I hope that things will go smoothly for him at least long enough for you to properly rest and take good care of yourself. You are both in my prayers. I hope the symptoms will lighten up quickly for you.
  • sweepmore
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    Mom was put in the hospital with COVID.  She gave it to me.  I drank lots of liquids, bed rest, zinc, vitamin c, Afrin (for runny nose) and have plenty of tissues on hand.  I was prescribed Prednisone as well.  Take care.
  • BethMimi
    BethMimi Member Posts: 36
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    Elshack, I have been in your shoes but nothing like this, you are a warrior.  Mom and I both tested for Covid on the same day.  She is in a facility that was having a serious outbreak.  I couldn't visited her for more than ten days.  I couldn't get back in even I had recovered because my husband was still tesing positive.  They have very strict rules.  But  I was going everyday so this was so upsetting.  But we both recovered.  

    Praying this turned out better for you.

    Love,

    BethMimi

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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