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Mom Just Passed(1)

What a long and horrible ordeal.

Thank you! for your support.

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  • Olly_Bake
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    I'm fairly new here myself. So I don't believe I had the opportunity to learn about your journey with your mom.

    Sorry to learn of your mom's passing!

  • mommyandme (m&m)
    mommyandme (m&m) Member Posts: 1,468
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    I’m so sorry for your loss!  I hope you have some sort of peace and comfort as you move forward.  It’ll take some time, my thoughts are with you and yours.
  • SusanB-dil
    SusanB-dil Member Posts: 1,149
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    so sorry for your loss. I know this whole thing is such a difficult journey.

    Be kind to yourself and take time to grieve and heal.

  • MaryG123
    MaryG123 Member Posts: 393
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    I’m so sorry Martin.  I know you miss her terribly.
  • CatsWithHandsAreTrouble
    CatsWithHandsAreTrouble Member Posts: 370
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    So sorry to hear of your LO's passing! :'( I haven't had a chance to travel long with you and yours in this season of life but you have my heartfelt condolences. May you get some chance to grieve and rest after going for so long. Take care ((hugs))
  • Hoot619
    Hoot619 Member Posts: 342
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    Her suffering is over and the grieving begins. I hope you are at peace with it. Nobody wants their loved ones to suffer. You should have good memories of how Mom used to be. Hang on to them. I know you will miss her.
  • GothicGremlin
    GothicGremlin Member Posts: 857
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    I'm so sorry, Martin. Please take care, and I'm sending all good thoughts that things with your family will sort themselves out (in a positive way).
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  • dayn2nite2
    dayn2nite2 Member Posts: 1,135
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    Very sorry for your loss.  Be glad that she is released from her sick body and is free.

    I know you posted about sister leaving before the funeral, so I think if you haven't already planned it, you should do all the things YOU want for her as far as service, obituary.  Do it for her and for you, the rest of the family can kick rocks.
  • jmlarue
    jmlarue Member Posts: 511
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    Sending sincere sympathy, Martin. I'm so very sorry that you don't have your siblings to lean on in your time of grief. I hope and pray they will have a change of heart.
  • zauberflote
    zauberflote Member Posts: 272
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    Martin, I am so sorry....
  • dwadd333
    dwadd333 Member Posts: 16
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    Please accept my deepest condolences. She's no longer suffering and you've been a tremendous help for her. My prayers for your family.
  • ladyzetta
    ladyzetta Member Posts: 1,028
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    Dear Martin,

    I am sorry for your loss,  your mother is now at peace. Now it's time for you and yours to get some rest. Hugs Zetta 

  • abc123
    abc123 Member Posts: 1,171
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    I am sorry for the loss of your mother. You did your best!

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