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Sleepless for days

Sleepless for days - help needed. My mom has Alz, mid-stage likely, lives in SNF. Doesn''t sleep all night or day for two days at a time. Over the past year it used to happen once a month. It''s progressed to 1-2 times a week. On the first day without sleep she gets hyper, talkative, her memory gets better (!), but hearing is worse, hears songs in her head for hours at a time. After two nights without sleep she gets weepy, fearful, angry and weak. She fears falling down. The music in her head gets progressively worse. It''s like she has bi-polar for those two days. Then she sleeps and is back to baseline until it happens again.

She already gets 2 mg melatonin and minerals at night, which used to make her sleepy when she was healthier. In-house doctor may consider an antidepressant. What suggestions do other LOs have that could help her? Thanks

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  • Quilting brings calm
    Quilting brings calm Member Posts: 2,568
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    Ask the doctor to put her on mirtrazipine.  It’s the generic of Remeron.  An antidepressant that aids with sleep.
  • M1
    M1 Member Posts: 6,788
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    Welcome to the forum kd. The sleep fragmentation and disruption is part of the disease, more prominent in some people than in others. Will almost certainly need medication to help-there are a number that can be tried. Mirtazepine as mentioned, Seroquel worked really well for my partner.
  • Olly_Bake
    Olly_Bake Member Posts: 140
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    kdkmommy - you described the sleepless for days perfectly. We finally asked for a prescription. Seroquel at 25mg 3 to 4 hours before bedtime is working now for my dad.

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