My Birthday(1)

Janco

This Sunday is my 70th birthday.  We are going out with some friends to celebrate.  I am not sure if Hubs even remembers. I want him back so bad, back five years or so to when things were relatively normal, before the six hour surgery that started the whole memory problem. I get plenty of counseling support (and legal in this State, edibles) but still I hurt so bad. Thank you for allowing me to vent.

jfkoc

May I be the first to wish you Happy Birthday. I know how very sad it is to "want him back" so I am sending a huge hug along with my birthday wishes.

MaryG123

Happy 70th birthday Janco!  I’m glad you will be with friends.

Ed1937

I'm sorry it is so bittersweet, but I hope you can enjoy some part of it today. Happy Birthday!

Joydean

Wishing you an early happy birthday!  It is sad but they don’t even remember when their own birthday is z  Sorry, I should say my dh has no idea when his own b-day is nor our children. 

Hope you have a great time with your friends and enjoy your day the best you can! 

Belldream

A very happy birthday to you! I was lucky on my 61st birthday 4 weeks ago my DH had a fairly lucid day and even tried singing happy birthday to me. By Christmas he had no idea it was a holiday and didn't really get the tiny decorated tree we put in his room. He always loved Christmas year round. I too wish for him to come back to me, even as he was 2 years ago. Hugs to you.

Berryette

Wishing you an early happy birthday!!  I'm so glad you will have friends to celebrate with.  May God bless your day!

piozam13

Happy Birthday Janco.  Just remind him.  Let him know what you want and - you can get the gift yourself or bring him with you to get it.

Yesterday - I treated myself to a bunch of flowers.  I had to do it - I've no one to treat me.  not the same feeling - but I'm kind to myself.

Last Dance

I certainly understand your feelings been there done that. I glad you are going out with some friends to celebrate at least that will help take away some of the pain. I pray you will have a happy day and birthday. God's Blessings to you Richard

Janco

A million thanks to all the well-wishers on my birthday.  Hugs to all.

Jo C.

We certainly do understand.  Oh how we miss our Loved One and "how things used to be," grateful for a lifetime of memories but so many times I wished there really was a time machine  so I could slip backward . . . 

Janco:

WHEE!  Happy Birthday To You!!!  Whistles!  Cake!  Champagne!  Balloons!  Confetti! Ice Cream! We will be there with you in spirit on Sunday wishing you a very good day and a very, very Happy Birthday!! 

May your "new year" of 70 bring you many blessings both large and small.  

J.

saltom

Happy Birthday, Janco.  Hugs and best wishes for  your 70th. Glad  you get to celebrate with friends.

RCT

I totally can relate! I am so happy you have friends to help make your birthday special! Happy Happy 70th Birthday!