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Music

While waiting in an ER hallway for more than 18 hours I played music on my phone whenever DH was getting a stick or felt anxious.  I have about 4 or 5 songs that I play over and over for him. Really helps to calm him down.

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  • zauberflote
    zauberflote Member Posts: 272
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    Elcy, 18 hours?!? That is horrible; I'm so sorry you had to do that. And I'm glad the songs gave him comfort. My mom had a "hospitalization from hell" while still in AL, and at one point was placed in a double room, on a bed less comfortable than a WWII army cot, with a roommate who had her tv blaring at midnight. I set up some of Mom's favorite music on my phone, and tucked the earbuds in her ears. She did enjoy that. 

    How are things standing now after the ER visit?

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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