A few tips

ElCy

I’ve done a few things during DH’s hospitalization that have helped a bit and may help someone you love.

1. Music- 5 songs on my phone that I play when he is about to get a procedure

2. If he refuses to take meds, I take my “meds” and he will sometimes follow my lead.

3. The nurses let me use the scanner to scan is bladder when he would t let them touch him.

4. Fight for all unnecessary things to be eliminated. He was awakened at 5 foraminifera EKG, they wanted to do another 4 hours later. I said no, now they will only do once a day at a reasonable time. The telemetry wires made him crazy so they took them off for good, etc.

toolbeltexpert

Elcy that's some good stuff, I sing sometimes when I am doing things for dw. You are so attentive and a great advocate for your dh. Hope your taking care of you as well. My prayers continue for you both.

Stewart

Ed1937

Stewart said it all. Thanks, ElCy.

MaryG123

Great tips!  Thanks ElCy, you’re amazing!

ImMaggieMae

Great tips, ElCy! I have one to add. If you have photos on your phone, looking at pictures and talking about them can occupy a lot of waiting time and distract an anxious patient.

Joydean

Thanks EICy good tips! You’re doing a wonderful job for your dh. Prayers for you both.