Help in getting DH out of bed

marier

My DH sleeps 16 plus hours a day.  He is at moderate stage.  I would like to see if he would benefit from a day program.  However the day programs that are available want you to be there by 10:00 AM at the latest.  This is near impossible to get him up, dressed etc.. this early. DH becomes very combative when I have tried to get him up early and dress etc.. 

DH when he is up likes to be active and there is very little he can do around the house.  I think a day program would be helpful to him and would allow me time to do errands etc... 

I try to open the blinds early to let the sun light in, play music and make sure the house is warm.  So far nothing works.  Any suggestions? Marie R

12 Step Hope

Hi Marie, I’m interested in replies to your question!  My DH is a late sleeper,  but lately he tells me he postpones getting up because he can’t remember his morning clean and dress routine, and he feels overwhelmed.  How can I help?  We are in the right place for answers and  options Marie.  sw

dhyink

Marie & 12 Step Hope,

Add me to the list!  I try not to schedule anything before 11 am because it is so hard to get DH dressed and ready to go.  I am hoping that the earlier sunrise and time change may help.  We are at a point where I dread specialists that only have early morning availability and won't see you if you are a few minutes late. 

Debbie

MaryG123

That’s a tough one.  Could you get him dressed the night before, maybe sweats, and have a favorite food to eat in the car?  Do they have a half day option?