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Moment of Clarity

ElCy
ElCy Member Posts: 151
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in Caring For a Spouse or Partner

I have not been able to understand anything my DH has been saying since his UTI first presented two weeks ago. Today, after he was fighting with the  nurses who were trying to clean him up from his BM in the bed I came back into the room. 

He looked at me and said clear as day “I’m so sorry l’m putting you through this.” And he continued to let me know that we will get through this. 

I just burst into tears. So happy to have him back for a moment and so sad he realized what was happening to him.

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  • Joydean
    Joydean Member Posts: 1,498
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    EICy that is a blessing and heartbreaking at the same time!  I hope your husband can know those were happy tears! Just hearing him speak plainly to you if only for a few minutes is something you can hold onto. Prayers for you both. Hugs too.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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