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Anyone ever experience Hospitals do not feed advanced dementia patients?

I recently found out that Stonybrook University Hospital did not want to feed my mom but wanted to keep her hospitalized for a week claiming they were waiting for her UTI test results?

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  • CarolynATL
    CarolynATL Member Posts: 43
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    UTI test results have come back the same day for my father if taken early.  Do they have any other concerns that they've shared with you?
  • VKB
    VKB Member Posts: 336
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    Blossom Pearl, yes, I have seen this happen. In fact, one lady was not eating, and they told her son she needed a feeding tube.  Wonder if she would have eaten if he came and fed her.  I did feed my mother when she was in the hospital, or her paid caregiver fed her.  

    Feeding people takes a long time which the hospital aids and nurses do not have.  I observed dementia patients fed in nursing homes.  They roll them in on their wheelchairs and place them on one side of a table.  The aid sits on the other side and feeds them all.  

    With today's staff shortages I'm sure many hospitals are like the one you mention. 

    I prayed for you and your mother.  

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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