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He's in Jesus' arms

My DH passed away Wednesday.  Our kids are here and I have some family coming in for his service. It was a long goodbye since diagnosis almost 7 years ago. I feel sad, alone, and yet some relief. He's done suffering, but the love of my life is gone.
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  • M1
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    Oh Marie.  Prayers for you.
  • Sligo177
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    I am so sorry Marie.  Thank you for letting us know.  It must be such a hard time for you, glad that family will be with you.  Thinking of you and your family.  God bless you all.  You are right, his suffering is over.
  • White Crane
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    Marie, I’m so sorry.  Holding you close in prayer.
  • F&E
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    Marie may God comfort you and your family.
  • A. Marie
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    Love and sympathy from another Marie. And, God forgive me, I wish my DH was beyond all pain and suffering too. He has now been in a SNF for a year and 8 months. Neither of us--and none of you all out there--deserve this.
  • Joe C.
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    Marie, My sincere condolences on the loss of your husband. May you find some peace in the days ahead.
  • Mint
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    Marie I am so sorry for the loss of your dear husband.
  • Battlebuddy
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      Oh Marie,

         I’m so sorry you have lost the love of your life.  His suffering is over and his long journey is over. He is with Jesus now and happy again. But oh so sad for you. I hope you can get some rest now . I’m sure the last few weeks have been exhausting. 

  • 60 falcon
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    I'm sorry Marie.
  • June45
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    I'm so sorry Marie. It's been a long hard road. Look up  the song Scars in Heaven (with lyrics) by Casting Crowns on YouTube. Your subject line reminds me of that song.
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  • Joydean
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    Marie I’m so sorry for your loss. But glad your husband is no longer suffering. May God give you and your family peace and strength in the coming days and months. God bless you.
  • LilySue
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    Marie, we are definitely together on this horrendous road. My DH breathed last on Jan. 18, almost 11 years after a stroke that took away all his language and started him on the road to dementia. I will always love that dear man. My children are also a great help in this time of grief, but we're the ones left alone. Tears are so very close by all the time.
  • Ed1937
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    I'm sorry for your loss, Marie. But I'm glad you have family to help you through this. I wish you strength in the coming days.
  • Howaboutnow
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    Marie, the road you’ve walked together for 7 years has split and perhaps given you both some relief and healing, yet in different ways. I’m sorry for your loss. Good to read you have family near. I hope that brings you much needed comfort. Take Care.
  • Pat6177
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    Marie, my sincere condolences. It’s been a long haul. You’ve been a great caregiver. Be gentle with yourself as you move forward.
  • toolbeltexpert
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    Marie I am so sorry for the loss of the love of your life. But he is in heaven today. Praying for you.
  • Davegrant
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    Sorry for your loss.
  • nancyj194
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    Marie, I am so sorry. Please know I am thinking of you and yours.

  • Beachfan
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    Marie,

    I am so very sorry.  Your journey has been long and sad; I feel as though I am only steps behind you and it frightens me.  I hope and pray that you can find peace, rest, and happiness as time passes.  I will be thinking of you and praying for you and your entire family.  Stay strong. 

    Grief is the price we pay for love.   How true. 


  • Last Dance
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    Marie, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. I pray that you can take comfort in the fact that his suffering is over and he is now in our Lord's hands. God's blessings to you and your family as you start a new journey in life without him. May the memory of the love that you shared together bring you happiness in the days ahead. Richard

  • Hoot619
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    He's in Jesus' arms and that is the best way I think to express it. His suffering is over and yes you and family will miss him. Later on the good memories of him of earlier years will begin to surface. You will be able to enjoy them again with the family and by yourself. It's not easy at first but keep coming back here to see how your friends are doing and let them know how you are doing.   We are part of your family too.
  • Lills
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I understand the grief you are feeling.
  • Lorita
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    Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss.  So glad  your family can be with you at this time.  Your husband is free now, no more suffering, no pain, he's like he was when he was well.  Take care of yourself  now.
  • dayn2nite2
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    Marie, I'm very sorry for your loss.  Please enjoy the company of your family and rest as you can.
  • Elshack
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    Deepest sympathy to you, Marie. Hold dear your fondest memories of your life together. 

    Ellen

  • Scooterr
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    Marie I'm so sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you and your family. Your DH journey is over and your right he's in the arms of Jesus. I hope and pray you find peace.
  • Jeff86
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    Heartfelt condolences on the passing of your DH, Marie.  Wishing you comfort and peace in the weeks and months ahead.
  • wcsc
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    I am so sorry for your loss.  He is not suffering anymore and is at peace up in heaven with God.  Peace be with you.
  • Buggsroo
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    Marie,

    I am so sorry for your loss. He is free of this wretched disease, my sadness is for you and your family.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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