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My cousin is gone

Iris L.
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My cousin, age 96 years, who was my late mother's last first cousin, passed away two nights ago from Alzheimer's Disease. She had been in a Memory Care facility and recently fell and broke her hip. Surgical repair was not considered to be an option. Hospice was called.

I had been calling her every week although I doubt that she knew who I was. Her caregivers said she still had a good sense of humor. Well, she's gone on to her reward now. She required total care for about two years.

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  • Joydean
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    Iris, sending my condolences on the passing of your cousin.

  • M1
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    Iris I'm sorry. I remember your being very steadfast about calling her. 96 is hard to argue with. Another of the so called greatest generation passes on.

  • Ed1937
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    Iris, I'm sorry. She lived a long life, and now it's time for her to rest.

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  • Nowhere
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    I’m very sorry to hear to hear about your cousins’s fall and subsequent death. May she rest in peace. Thinking of you during this time of sorrow.

  • loveskitties
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    Dear Iris,

    I am so sorry for your loss. No matter the age, a LO's passing is hard.

    May you find peace.

    Hugs

  • Jgirl57
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    Sorry Iris, hugs to you. I admired the effort you put into keeping up the contact with her.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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