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New here… needing advice

jdear2003
jdear2003 Member Posts: 2
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Hi everyone! I am new to this group and hoping to get some insight and support. My 73 year old mom with stage 4-5 dementia just moved in with my teenage son and I. We both sold our homes and bought one together. I work from home in a full time position. It’s only been a week and I’m exhausted and overwhelmed. She fights me on everything, has breakdowns about being bored and needing people and independence. I’ve explained every time that the doctors say it’s not safe for her to have a level of independence but it’s on repeat. We can’t move her into a home because we just bought this one. Just needing ideas of best ways to get care for her during the days. Or maybe ideas of projects I can give her (that won’t cause issues in the house because attention span is that of a gnat). Thank you so much!!

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  • Brian mac
    Brian mac Member Posts: 3
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    I’m looking at a senior day care program for my mom ALZ.org can help you find one

  • jdear2003
    jdear2003 Member Posts: 2
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    I was actually thinking that same thing. My physical therapist recommended that option. Thank you!

  • sam87599
    sam87599 Member Posts: 1
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    I printed out family pictures, and find easy craft projects.

  • Gakinrolabu
    Gakinrolabu Member Posts: 5
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    I'm in a similar position. Good luck to you.

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Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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