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How do you balance leave and cleave (Genesis 2:24) with honoring (caring for) your elderly parents

HeyDforDaughter
HeyDforDaughter Member Posts: 34
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I learned the hard way, folks. No matter what the Bible or your culture says, pick your marriage (leave and cleave) and work out how to care for your parents without destroying it. I didn't think at this age or stage in my life we would be working on repairing our marriage - but here we are. Be happy. Don't let caregiving overtake you.

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  • Rizzy
    Rizzy Member Posts: 3
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    good advice.

  • HeyDforDaughter
    HeyDforDaughter Member Posts: 34
    10 Comments Second Anniversary
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    Thank you Rizzy. I wish my current myself could go back in time and tell my past self to listen. Then maybe our future wouldn't seem so bleak.

Commonly Used Abbreviations


DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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