Caring for Mom

LizAG

Hi there,
I am thankful to be able to connect with other people who understand what caregiving is like. It's definitely exhausting, frustrating, etc. I've decided it's ok to feel whatever I'm feeling, I'm only human. I'm relying on my relationship with the Lord to see me through this. It's tough to let go of what you expected your life to look like. But I'm thankful for my family and good friends. Most especially my adult sons. They are a strength and blessing to me.
I look forward to hearing from you all.

SusanB-dil

Hi LizAG - welcome to 'here', but sorry for the reason. 'this' is hard. Those emotions you've mentioned, so true. Sounds like you have a good support system. That's a big help.

bjohnsen3869

Hi Liz,

it’s great that you’ve reached out. This is not what anyone would’ve thought to be their lives but it is what it is. I’ve had a parent die of cancer and now one with ALZ and I can tell you ALZ is worse. So, unpredictable and frustrating for everyone involved. Yes, feel your feelings but don’t let them take over your decision making. Im guilty of trying to make my parent happy so much that I’m letting it interfere with what’s “best” for him. Support is key. Accept and ask for help. Good luck.

Kathryn Mc

Hi LizAG,

I too am thankful for this Forum. Thankful for folks like yourself that keep it real. I am often on my knees praying for guidance, strength, wisdom, courage and forgiveness. ( to name a few) . I don’t think most of us ever expected that this would be a part of our life’s journey. Many of us have put our life plans on hold to be dutiful caregivers. I am glad that you have good friends and family to support you. Blessings