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Long ago and far away

Today marks 6 months since DH passed and today this popped up on FB “memories” from 9 years ago. So bittersweet. It’s hard to believe that things went South so fast.

. I miss him every day, but reminders like this are comforting.

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  • M1
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    Great picture. Great couple!

  • Joe C.
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    Beachfan, Beautiful picture and great memory I’m sure. I have our version of this picture from 5 years ago in Turks and Caicos. DW has age so much since then that other visitors or new staff at the MC will often ask if DW is my mother, I will tell them she is my wife and show them that picture so them can see how young & beautiful she was just a few years ago.

  • mrl
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    Oh my, what a sharp picture. They bring such pleasure, don't they?

    Michele💘

  • Last Dance
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    What a great picture. These are the things that pop up in our life and what makes us smile and makes us sad at the same time. I am happy you found it comforting. I pray it brought a smile to your face and thoughts of better days. God's Blessings to you. Richard

  • mrahope
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    Thanks for the reminder that some sweet memories outlast this terrible disease. I've gotten to the point where I wonder whether some of these will resurface for me when/if I reach Stage 8.

  • Rocky2
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    Great picture. I'm glad it brings fond memories. Thank you for the reminder to focus on the good. Even in the hard times of life I am reminded to count my many blessings. Peace and joy to you.

    Tom

  • Dio
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    Memories are kept alive with so much love! Thanks for sharing this beautiful photo and the love you shared.

  • Joydean
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    What a happy couple. Great memories to hold close to your heart. You will see him again someday.

  • Ed1937
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    What a great pic! I'm glad you're at the point where you can see something like that, and have good memories. I'd like to bet you have a lot of pics with good memories to make you feel better.

    I was looking through some pics today, and I found what I think is the only one where our whole family was in it. We had 9 kids, and this was taken in 1989 or 1990.

  • LilySue
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    I was so happy to see your name here. Your postings after your husband's passing were very meanigful to me. I felt that our experiences were so similar.

    It's been 9 months since my DH passed away, and while I'm usually fine, i honestly feel like tears are right behind my eyes and can emerge at a moment's notice. I'm staying busy as I'm sure you are too and that helps. In April i went with my son and daughter-in-law and her family to Guatemala for 10 days, and in July I spent 2 1/2 weeks in England with my daughter, son-in-law, and grandson for my grandson's college graduation. I would not have made these trips if DH was still with me, so his passing has freed me a bit - i dreaded not being with him when his time came, and I'm very grateful I could be with him. He likely didn’t know, but I did.

    Life does go on, and I'm very aware that we all grieve differently. I miss him very much, but i also grieve his very long suffering, 12 years post-stroke that left him totally without language and then a long road into dementia. Everyone on this site has their own grief story, all different, but we have a common bond that ties us together. I'm thankful to feel not so alone on this journey.

  • Lills
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    Beautiful photo! DH and I have a photo with the same pose--but we were 25 years old:) We never, ever forget even a moment, do we? Every thing, every photo, etc. brings back a memory. Take care! Lills

  • LadyTexan
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    Beautiful! I can feel the joy in my heart. Thank you for sharing.

  • White Crane
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    Beautiful photo. Good memories. Blessings.

  • ThisLife
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    Beautiful photo. Precious memories. ❤️

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DH = Dear Husband
DW= Dear Wife, Darling Wife
LO = Loved One
ES = Early Stage
EO = Early Onset
FTD = Frontotemporal Dementia
VD = Vascular Dementia
MC = Memory Care
AL = Assisted Living
POA = Power of Attorney
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